⸻ INTRODUCING DR. KITSON
As a licensed psychologist based in Charlotte, North Carolina, I provide comprehensive psychological services through both in-person and teletherapy sessions. We will work closely together to gain self-insight that is based on your personal values, enabling you to make positive and healthy changes in your life. Whether you are seeking growth, coping strategies, or deeper self-understanding, I am here to support your journey. Contact me today to schedule your initial consultation.
⸻ TAILORED CARE FOR IMPROVED LIFE BALANCE
As a licensed psychologist, I provide tailored services and care to couples, adults, and teens who are navigating complex challenges in their interpersonal relationships. Together, we work to manage the stress associated with major life transitions, aiming to foster balance and well-being. My therapeutic approach is designed to support and guide you through these challenges, enhancing communication and understanding. Learn more about how we can work together to achieve your goals. by clicking the button below or getting in touch today.
⸻ MORE ABOUT MY THERAPEUTIC APPROACH
My approach focuses on helping you cultivate self-insight and derive personal values in order to promote change and growth. I have found this approach to be successful in working with clients who struggle with emotional expression, finding meaning in their lives, maintaining healthy boundaries, and managing the stress and expectations they place on themselves. This includes workplace professionals, high school and college-age individuals, married or committed couples, and individuals who have experienced trauma, significant stress, and/or loss (including veterans).
I also work specifically with members of the LGBTQIA+ community. I love my job and working with a diverse caseload; I feel it keeps me invested and curious about our work together. Specific areas of extensive experience include anxiety, trauma, substance use, identity formation, stress management, emotion regulation, depression/bipolar disorder, couples counseling, diagnostic clarification, males and females with Asperger’s, issues surrounding identity and sexuality, and female athletes.
"Build a life worth living by identifying authentic values and silencing your inner critic."
⸻ TRUSTED PSYCHOLOGIST SERVING A DIVERSE CLIENTELE ⸻
My approach to therapy is warm, straightforward, and interpersonal. I believe in the development of a healthy doctor-patient relationship that requires trust and accountability, builds over time, can be enjoyable and lighthearted, and will face certain obstacles at times, just like any relationship. I work with a diverse caseload, which means I respect race/ethnicity, gender identity, religion, sexual orientation, and cultural background and will meet you where you are in terms of values and goals. I incorporate and have been trained in the therapy modalities of dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). Below, you will find summaries of some of the needs common to the clients I serve. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions or are ready to schedule an initial consultation.
I love working with couples and supporting people as they cultivate meaningful interpersonal relationships. I work with you to establish a definition of a healthy relationship, given your experiences and values. We examine life stressors, schemas, and intimacy.
I have provided pre-marital counseling, marriage counseling, support for couples who are dating or in committed relationships, LGBT+ clients in their relationships, and post-marital counseling for couples who are separating or going through a divorce.
I typically focus on attachment styles and communication feedback loops and incorporate many of Gottman’s theories.
I work with a wide variety of individuals who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, mood dysregulation, or stress and a lack of meaning or purpose in their lives.
Sometimes they are just overwhelmed and trying to understand why they feel the way they do.
Some people are coming to grips with past trauma or experiences that seem to still haunt them today. Sometimes our work is brief, and other times it is long-term. I often incorporate exploration of values and personality, in addition to personal histories.
My work with teens stems mostly from establishing trust and providing validation for their experiences, from an adult perspective.
Validation does not mean endorsing or understanding, but the ability to listen to their experiences in a non-judgmental way.
I work with teens who are struggling socially, academically, and with emotion regulation. I also provide support for parents of teens who are struggling to feel connected to their child.
Autism awareness is a passion for me. I get so much out of my work with males and females on the spectrum.
If you have been diagnosed with an ASD or have wondered if you meet criteria, I would be honored to work with you to help overcome social anxiety, cope with sensory stimulation, and feel more integrated, valued, and understood.
My clients who are on the spectrum also teach me, and together we understand the scope of neurodiversity.
As a working mother, I am personally invested in the meaning of having balance in life.
My job is to help people achieve what a meaningful life is for them and to see if they are living in accordance with those values. We each need time to sit with our thoughts and process our feelings about what a meaningful life means.
What works in the boardroom or on the trading floor does not necessarily, if ever, work in our interpersonal relationships, and learning how to be true to ourselves and effective in each situation is paramount. I help people identify their strengths and cultivate them in different settings to achieve a more balanced life all around.
I love working with people—no matter who they love, how they identify, or what stage of exploration or identity formation they are in.
Sexuality and gender identity are such an important part of us that they need to be honored, validated, and realized. These aspects of our identities do not necessarily have to define us, but they are core features of our whole selves.
I will work with you if you are struggling with your identity in these areas. My goal as your therapist is to respect those parts of who you are. Wherever you fall on the continuum of human experience, I am here for you and will obviously respect this piece of the puzzle that is what makes up the complete person you are.
I work with people who have been diagnosed with or are wondering whether they may have ADHD.
People who live with undiagnosed ADHD may develop anxiety or depression as the result of living a life with undiagnosed ADHD.
Executive functioning not only impacts our ability to focus and attend but also our mood regulation, memory, activation, and distress tolerance.
Some people have been living with ADHD for most of their lives and have developed enough workarounds that they never had to be diagnosed but it still impacts them significantly. I help people recognize how ADHD impacts their lives and relationships and develop behavioral coping mechanisms to manage their symptoms.
Trauma comes in many forms and affects us all in different ways.
I work with victims of sexual assault, rape, molestation, and emotional or physical abuse.
I also work with war veterans and survivors of a natural disaster or life-threatening accident.
Through processing and exposure, we work together to ground you in a safe environment and empower you to grow from your trauma rather than be held down by it.
I work with a lot of clients who fall into this category in some way or another.
They might not even know they are “perfectionists” at first because they think they are lazy or feel they haven’t gotten anywhere in life. A lot of the time, that feeling results from anxiety about failing or being judged.
Other clients have been very successful in life but are having a hard time enjoying themselves at work, school, socially, or in their relationships. Perfectionistic tendencies are tricky because they are often reinforced by our environments. I work with people to explore the roots of their perfectionism and live a life with more balance and joy.
"Expect sensitivity to issues of sex, race, gender, religion, and economic status. Mental health is important for everyone."
⸻ PASSIONATE ABOUT MAKING IMPACTFUL CLIENT CONNECTIONS
My name is Rachel Kitson, and I'm a psychologist providing mental health services. I grew up in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, and have always loved painting, drawing, and being in nature. I attended Governor’s School and the North Carolina School of the Arts for visual arts as a teen. I also participated in Outward Bound’s Unity Project in high school. I ran track and cross country in high school and was a state champion in the mile and 2-mile races my senior year. These experiences were pivotal for me and still inform my life and work.
With all clients, I emphasize the need to challenge ourselves physically and creatively in our lives. I obtained my bachelor’s in sociology from Brown University. My undergraduate thesis examined the concept of “mattering” in a teenage population and linked the lack of this experience to illicit drug use. I applied to work at an employee rights law firm in Manhattan right after college and worked there for about three years as a paralegal, focusing primarily on discrimination and class action cases. I provided much “counseling” for the clients of the firm, and at the end of my big city stint, I decided to apply to graduate school for school psychology, hoping to continue to work both with people and within an institution.
I obtained a Ph.D. in psychology from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. While there, I developed a strong interest in autism and Asperger’s through my work with TEACCH, extensive training in assessment and diagnosis, and clinical experience in an adolescent psych ward at UNC hospital and through my school-based externships. I also externed with UNC’s Child Maltreatment Center and Carolina Institute for Developmental Disabilities and participated on UNC Hospital’s forensic psychiatry team, performing court-ordered custody evaluations. My dissertation examined verbal memory in children who have been maltreated. I completed my clinical internship and post-doctoral training at Southeast Psych. During these years, I became trained in dialectical behavioral therapy and gained experience advocating for my clients both in court and in school. I also developed a passion for working with couples, parents, and adults.
When I'm not at home or at work, I might be spotted running around Charlotte with one child or the other in a stroller. I still paint occasionally and love to be outdoors as much as possible. Like many of us, I love reading and finding new music to listen to and good shows and movies to watch. I also love learning about what my clients read, listen to, and watch as we get to know each other.
"Develop skills in mindfulness, emotion regulation and coping, understanding and changing negative thought patterns, decreasing judgment of oneself and others, and having healthy boundaries."
⸻ SECURE, FLEXIBLE, CONVENIENT
Experience the convenience of teletherapy with Rachel Kitson, Ph.D., where professional mental health support is just a click away. Through secure online sessions, I provide personalized counseling tailored to your schedule and comfort level. Embrace the flexibility of teletherapy and take proactive steps towards your mental wellness from the comfort of your own space. Request an online therapy session or initial consultation today.
⸻ BASED IN CHARLOTTE, MULTI-STATE PROVIDER
As a psychologist, my services are tailored to help you navigate life's challenges and foster personal growth. I specialize in assisting clients with emotional expression, boundary-setting, stress management, and finding meaning in their lives, drawing upon a warm and interpersonal approach. Whether you're a workplace professional, a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, a trauma survivor, or someone grappling with identity formation, I'm dedicated to supporting you on your journey towards healing and self-discovery. Reach out today to get started!
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Therapy is different for everyone, but you tend to get out of what you put into it.
This just means that the more open, honest, and vulnerable you can be with me, the further we will get in helping you meet your goals. A good therapy experience depends on the therapeutic relationship, so I have to earn your trust and confidence, which inherently takes a little time. As your psychologist, I have to listen to you and understand your experience.
We will work together to establish your goals for coming to therapy and make sure we are moving towards them or adjusting as needed. Therapy sessions are a time to focus on you and speak candidly about your life and experiences with someone trained in understanding human behavior, cognition, and emotion.
My duties as a psychologist are to track your patterns and experiences. Through this observation, we can then discuss trends and outliers to help you be more effective and empowered. Therapy allows space for a greater understanding of who you are and how you are moving through this life. Self-insight provides the foundation for making changes that enhance life and give it meaning, rather than passively experiencing it or living with ongoing, significant stress and pain.
Expect to understand yourself better and learn skills and strategies for generating joy and gratitude in your life.
Some people come to therapy for only a handful of sessions to sort through a situational issue, while others seek out treatment for a more long-standing issue that can take time to work on.
I generally let the client give a timeframe they are hoping to work within and give feedback on how that can be achieved when we meet.
There is so much variation, but generally, I like to meet with someone once a week for about 4 weeks to get to know them and learn about their life and goals, and then determine the frequency and duration at that point.
For many of my clients, therapy is a lifetime endeavor.
That doesn’t mean we meet every week for the rest of their lives, but we meet with more frequency when they need it and less when they don’t. I don't see some clients for years, and they reach out when something comes up. We will figure out what is best for you.
I am collaborative, direct, and mindful.
I do not rush to conclusions, I respond well to feedback and criticism, and I utilize humor wholeheartedly. I am curious, but I will listen and let there be silence if there needs to be. I tend to focus on the negative automatic thought cycles we struggle with and understanding their origins and enablers.
I focus on relationships: with our parents or caregivers, our siblings, friendships, loved ones, and relationships that have caused us pain, grief, or suffering, as well as growth, gratitude, and grace.
I incorporate evidence-based strategies for improving relationships, coping with stress, and regulating emotions. I teach mindfulness skills and often use assessments to gather data and track progress.
I am not for everyone, but I work with a wide enough variety of clientele that I would say I am very adaptable. I look forward to us learning more about one another.
In my experience as a psychologist, I typically like to begin meeting with someone once a week, for at least 3-6 weeks, and then determine whether weekly feels like a good rhythm or not.
Sometimes people need to meet more frequently initially to build rapport or momentum, and other times it’s perfectly fine and comfortable to meet biweekly. Depending on your needs, wants, expectations, and goals, we will adjust a time frame for the meeting that works for you.
I see this as a collaborative effort, and I do not dictate how frequently we need to meet. However, therapy becomes less useful when sessions are sporadic and widely spaced apart.
Therapy is a financial commitment. Part of the cost is getting your buy-in and motivation to make use of it and participate fully.
Without that emotional commitment, therapy can be slogging and ineffective.
My fees reflect my training, my experience, and my commitment to you. However, I also feel therapy is something everyone can benefit from, and I will take into account each person’s situation to determine whether a reduced fee for service makes sense.
I meet with you at my office, unless circumstances arise such that we must meet remotely or virtually—known as teletherapy.
I use a HIPPA-secured platform for my virtual sessions and will provide that information to you prior to our sessions. If we meet virtually, I will still be in my office, and I expect you to find a private, distraction-free, and comfortable place that is conducive to therapy.
For our first session, I will typically ask what brings you to therapy or what has been going on in your life lately.
The first session allows us to meet to see if it feels comfortable to work together and for me to learn more about why you are seeking therapy. I’ll ask about your support systems, your school or work, your history of trauma or stress, what other medication or therapy you have received, and about your interests and motivations.
I’ll allow you to ask me questions too. We can discuss what your goals are for therapy and what your timeline or time frame is for working together, if there is one.
I may give you some things to work on or think about prior to our next meeting.
Disclaimer:
Appointments are 45 minutes long.90-minute appointments are available upon request. Late cancellation and no-show fees may apply.
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